Tips for Multi-Generational Cruising

My family really enjoys cruising. Among my typical travel companions, we have folks over 80 years old and under 16. We’ve had a toddler and a gambler. We have a workout fanatic and a foodie. We’ve had an early riser and a party animal. So, it’s really impressive that one cruise can satisfy us all, both together and on our own.

A view of our giant Princess Cruise ship in St. John Harbor in New Brunswick, Canada

Overall, we usually select a cruise based on the itinerary over the ship. So far, after cruising on several different brands, I would say that Celebrity had the best and most abundant food (to the point where I gained 8 pounds). Princess had excellent food too, but the most gourmet experience we’ve had so far was on Windstar including a fabulous cookout on board while docked in Malaga, Spain.

The buffets on cruise ships have something for everyone to love!

Norwegian has “anytime dining” which just means you don’t sign up for a certain time each night to go to the dining room. Norwegian is a little more casual, and in my experience, they also have great shows–like Cirque de Soleil style performances, comedy troupes and great little musicals. However, despite the convenience of anytime dining, it’s sometimes difficult to get a reservation at the time you would like to eat. Plus, there is an upside to going to the same dining session in the same dining room every night, because the wait staff gets to know you and your personal preferences. They make you feel very special!

When possible have one member of the family book a cabin big enough for the group to meet or have cocktails together. This was our cabin on Windstar’s Sea Breeze

I personally prefer to steer away from ships larger than 2500, because above 3000 passengers, you start getting into lines at the buffet and for tenders to take you to the dock (small boats that take you from the ship to the port). Overall, it’s important to try to sign up for some kind of excursion. You can pay for the excursions the ship offers, or you can go onto Trip Advisor and look for a comparable tour from a private operator for less money, that’s less crowded and probably equally good. This is true even in foreign countries so don’t be afraid to investigate your options.

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We took a small boat and cruised around Portofino while our Princess ship was docked.

It’s rather dull to just get off the ship and walk around the port. The ports limit your understanding of the actual destination, so try to find public transportation to the attractions. You can’t experience a destination unless you explore the place beyond the port, so avoid just getting off with no plans. Or look for a cab to take you somewhere specific. My brother always rents a small boat (usually with a captain) or car at every port and tools around in it. But we sometimes take buses or get private tours to try new things.

Sailing through the Fjords near Kotor, Montenegro on Princess’s Pacific Princess.
In the port of Kotor, Montenegro

Another option is taking one of the very upscale small ships. They rarely have kids on board so they’re not great for families. But, the cruise price usually includes extras that you have to pay for otherwise–like excursions and drinks. My parents have taken Silversea–and the ship’s food, cabins, spa are all incredibly posh. My husband and I are going on their Expedition Ship this fall to South America. If your group likes traditional cruising, I hear very positive reviews about Holland America–classy, traditional, and sometimes an older crowd.

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Larger ships usually have festive gambling casinos. 

Getting a cabin with a balcony is really nice, especially if you’re going someplace very warm. If it’s cold or windy there, don’t bother because you will never use it. In my experience, “obstructed windows” were a bit claustrophobic, so it’s better to have a window that you can actually see through. One trick I recommend is to have one person rent a larger cabin so you can get the group together in a cabin for pre dinner cocktails (by sneaking a bottle of wine on the boat of course).

Some cabins have obstructed windows and can feel claustrophobic.

I like going for a minimum of a week. For a shorter trip, you’re just getting your groove on the third day, and then you’re thinking about leaving. Time goes by very very fast on a ship, and you can also enjoy a day at sea with all the fun activities, spa and great gyms on board.

Some days it’s nice to relax on board, whether that’s enjoying the weather, hitting the gym or having a spa treatment.

Sometimes you need to chill out and read in your cabin. It’s especially convenient to be sleeping in the same bed every night, while going to new places almost every day. You’ll probably sleep better on a ship, thanks to the gentle rocking motion which can be very soothing. Honestly, I’ve never been seasick on a cruise ship, and I get carsick easily. Even in a rough sea, the large ships are stable. If you’re on a ship with around a hundred of so, you may notice the waves.

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Our family cruise in Sicily

So there you have it, my advice for you cruise newbies and hopefully a few new tricks for the experienced cruiser. Write me if you have any questions, and Bon Voyage! If you’re looking for information on Travel Insurance, check out this blog by





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